Speaking of doing, I can't do Nole or...if it's the other way. He doesn't strike me as a man with substance. I am never attracted to a guy just because he's very handsome. I have to know him first and know that he's great at carrying on conversation and that he posses great qualities - only then I'll be interested. all you women care is money ... don't give me that 'substance, carrying conversation' mambo jambo
I can't look at men the way men look at women...as sexual objects most of the time.
Isn't that a bit too much of a generalization? Not all women but perhaps a lot of them. But this idea was set out a long time ago when "angry men" actually preferred women to stay home and take care of the house and their babies.
Oh and you are so barking at the wrong tree when you lump me with the rest of the women. See, if I wanted someone else to take care of me, I would have done that a long time ago. The reason why I am single is because I don't care for that s**t. I don't need anyone else's money. I am way too proud to live on someone else's money. Heck, I don't even take any of my father's money which I am entitled to. I have a good job, I live alone, I bare all my expenses including rent, bills, car payments, insurance, groceries and all others. I don't date like a typical woman as I believe in steady, long relationship so unless I am very sure of the guy, I won't go out with him. And if I do, I will share half the cost whatever it is. So that he doesn't feel he's now allowed to kiss me and get laid just because he paid for my dinners/lunches etc.
I absolutely fail to see why and how men are more worthy than women, so I am hardly going to give any attention to the guys as if I can't live without them and be so desperate about it too.
But I agree, most women would prefer money over anything else; by the same token, men prefer sex so when they get married, they keep two things in mind: one, the girl has to be very young and very beautiful. It's fair trade if you ask me.
See I am generalizing there too but you basically asked for it.