What do you mean “I wonder why”? The relationship I am in right now is long distance so there's no actual chance for either of us to control it. I've already talked about other men in my life and how they were with me and vice versa on this very thread.
Are you dating your ex? Ha ha. Hey, it happens to the best of us; it happens to the rest of us. I got back with a few of my ex's a few times, thinking the impossible possible.
Men, on the other hand, are much less trust worthy and not as responsible and lack emotion considerably. So there’s a deep conflict of interest to begin with – no wonder why most marriages are doomed from the beginning.
Then there's me. I think women do come into relationships with pre-misconceptions of how I'm going to behave and respond. It definitely frustrates them when I don't react the way they anticipate based on what conventional wisdom dictates how guys will react.
Gawd no, I am not dating my ex. I have absolutely no history of dating my Exs. I only move on from one relationship to the other once I am very sure that I am done and about with the it. There's no going back, no turning around, no nothing ... for me. But I tend to keep good friendly relationship with me Exs. No harm done just because the two couldn't work it out. Plenty of fish for each party.
Babbs, I am pretty sure you don't wanna be in a permanent relationship, so women will get frustrated. But some of them still feel they can turn things around which in fact frustrate them even more. Both men and women tend to crave for things thye will never get. If you look beyond that, you will see it's actually about them being more obsessed with themselves than anything else.