Here, I have something for you two. Read and understand. After that, try discovering yourself.
The differences between lucky and unlucky people or you can read it as the differences between positive and negative people:
1) Lucky people are always good at seeing opportunities and make the most of it. Unlucky people arenít even aware of those and even if they are, they are too scared to move forward.
2) Lucky people tend to trust their intuition; unlucky people tend to analyze things from every single situation and by the time they do make a decision, itís too late.
3) Lucky people expect the future to be positive and that becomes a self fulfilling prophecy; unlucky people tend to see the future as a complete disaster.
4) Lucky people are very resilient so when bad things happen, they tend to bounce back very quickly; unlucky people are dragged down by the smallest life events.
Therefore, you can make your own luck once you change the way you think or see. Itís been experimented a number of times to come to that conclusion. Of course, some things are out of this realm as we canít control everything.