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Clay Death:
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Clay Death:
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Freak3yman84:
My teachers all completely hate me because I goof around too much. And I'm positive that them hating me makes them give me bad grades. For example, in science I wrote a solid paper, and she gave me a D.... Then since we all got bad grades we had to peer review papers to see which components of the rubric we missed. The chick that was grading my paper found nothing wrong, but for some "unknown" reason, I got a s**t grade... Her paper, however, was missing tons of s**t! What grade did she get? A. The teacher seems to love that girl, and she unfairly gets good grades as a result. So obviously I'm not going to tell my teacher all of this, in fear of making her hate me more. So my question, how do I get my teachers to like me now that I've pissed them off for a semester? And do you think them liking me would better my grades?
Clay Death:
i think it is important to be liked and loved. that opens a lot of doors for people.
people are more willing to help you or even bring you along. and life becomes instantly and invariably more fun and more exciting. just take facebook. people constantly talk about how many friends they have. average facebook person has close to 500 friends. the more the better. you learn a lot more from others also so why not have an army of people on your side.
how you go about doing that is a more difficult proposition. especially if it is one`s teachers in school. so we will have to let others weigh in on this.
probably the first step is to make every effort to make sure that your default look, default manners, and default disposition is pleasant and pleasing. never ever let your guard down. do not argue needlessly with your fellow students. resolve to make new friends in schoool every single day. the word gets around quickly in school. teachers will also find out that you are a good person.
take part in various school activities. perhaps there is a student association. try to join it. take part in fund raising activities for your school. do some charity work.
we will let others weigh in and see what they suggest. you just have to invent ways to win the school and the teachers over.
if your teachers like you then they are more likely to give your work additional consideration. they are also a tightly knit group. they will pass it on quickly if they dont like you for whatever reasons.
Freak3yman84:
--- Quote from: Clay Death on January 13, 2013, 10:30:11 AM ---i think it is important to be liked and loved. that opens a lot of doors for people.
people are more willing to help you or even bring you along. and life becomes instantly and invariably more fun and more exciting. just take facebook. people constantly talk about how many friends they have. average facebook person has close to 500 friends. the more the better. you learn a lot more from others also so why not have an army of people on your side.
how you go about doing that is a more difficult proposition. especially if it is one`s teachers in school. so we will have to let others weigh in on this.
probably the first step is to make every effort to make sure that your default look, default manners, and default disposition is pleasant and pleasing. never ever let your guard down. do not argue needlessly with your fellow students. resolve to make new friends in schoool every single day. the word gets around quickly in school. teachers will also find out that you are a good person.
take part in various school activities. perhaps there is a student association. try to join it. take part in fund raising activities for your school. do some charity work.
we will let others weigh in and see what they suggest. you just have to invent ways to win the school and the teachers over.
if your teachers like you then they are more likely to give your work additional consideration. they are also a tightly knit group. they will pass it on quickly if they dont like you for whatever reasons.
--- End quote ---
I'm not saying I have an issue with friends, because I don't. The reason my teachers hate me is actually because I goof off too much with my friends. In today's society it almost seems like if you have no friends, then your teachers like you more. All of the teachers' favorites are troubled socially. And I don't want to wind up troubled socially. My school doesn't even have a student association, so that isn't really an option. But I agree with acting as if I'm a well behaved student in class, then my teachers will like me more. If I act like my goofy self then my teachers hate me :zipped:
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