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Do you consider yourself a good competitor? There are many examples
and opinions of what a great competitor is and does. Being a great
competitor is an art. It is a learned skill. Learning to compete
is a great skill that can take you through down or tough times.
You won't always play well or win but can ALWAYS BE A GREAT COMPETITOR.
In the Oscar winning movie "Gladiator" Russell Crowe portrayed the life
of a high ranking Roman general who was reduced to a slave by a new and
corrupt emperor of Rome. He experienced incredible hardships and challenges
in his life yet demonstrated a number of characteristics that I believe
to be signs of a great competitor. I've identified some of them here for
your review. Read them over and see if there are any on this list that
you could begin building into your own game. If so, write them on a 3
x 5 card and take it on the court with you as a reminder of the state
of mind and feeling you want to reproduce.
8 Great Competitive Traits:
- Strength of character and conviction-an honorable person dedicated
and committed to your plan and path
- Passion-giving fully of your emotion and motivation to the game.
- Integrity-unwavering ability to do what is right and necessary
regardless of what is seen as right or acceptable by others. True
to yourself
- Patience-regardless of the situation: being patient enough to work
through it
- Vulnerability-unafraid to feel and express a range of emotion
- Present Moment Focus-Not resisting what's happening: the ability to
accept current circumstances and remain focused on the "now"
- Trust/Faith-believing in yourself and the "bigger picture" enough
to give fully here and now.
- Fearlessness-acknowledging the possibility of defeat, neither expecting
nor fearing it (in other words…PLAY FULL OUT!)
These are all qualities that can help you release the great competitor
in you. How do you feel when you read them? If any of them move you…take
that feeling onto the court with you and notice the changes it can make
in your physical and emotional presence!
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David Breslow-- Performance Success Strategies 847.681.1698 urwiredtowin@aol.com
David offers a unique "root cause" approach that teaches athletes to create
new outcomes rather than coping with old ineffective patterns. He's worked
with athletes locally, nationally and internationally using his Wired
To Win program that players can take part no mater where they live
or play. He also offers an on-line assessment in that measures your strengths
and development areas in 10 key and critical performance traits. Contact
David for more information .
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