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Don't quit because you're tired!
So, you've taken my advice and you're out practicing like
a true Tennis Warrior. Every thing is moving along according to your practice
schedule. You're making some mistakes, but over all it's a winning Warrior
performance. You're even thinking, "Tom must be right, this repetition
practice is the path to tennis immortality. I think I'll continue his
email lessons and maybe even purchase his book." Then, wham!!! Out of
nowhere you begin practicing like a seasoned beginner. You're not sure
what's going on, but your muscles are not responding correctly, your timing
seems out of whack, and the tennis ball begins looking like a ping pong
ball. Your shots are flying everywhere! All you can think of is...Whoa!!!
Then you begin thinking about how tired you feel. "Aha" you think, "that
must be it. I'm tired. That's what's causing all of these problems. Time
to stop practicing before I acquire any bad habits. This is all Tom's
fault. He told me to practice, practice, practice, practice, practice
with massive repetition. But, he did not tell me you quickly become so
tired your game falls apart. I better cancel his email lessons before
he ruins my game even more."
By the way this is a typical situation. Except for blaming
me and canceling the email lessons...I hope! :) When players become tired
in their practice they play poorly and think it's time to head for the
whirlpool. They think, "what's the point, I'm tired, I cannot play or
practice effectively." What? You're tired and cannot play or practice
effectively? Who cares!!! Get back out there and mentally work yourself
through it. Why? Because this is what it's all about. Physically and mentally
working yourself through these situations is what separates you from the
players who quit. Mentally tough players forge forward while the mentally
timid boomerang backward.
But you still say, "if I'm tired I cannot improve. What's
the point?" The point is, this is the time you can improve the most! That's
right, bringing yourself to the point of being tired and then working
through it physically and mentally can help you improve at a faster rate.
It's a technique I use on purpose when teaching my students. I bring them
to the point where they are tired. Balls begin to fly every where and
they become a bit discouraged. At that point I challenge them to forget
where the balls are going, to put themselves on automatic and keep swinging.
There are two concepts at work here. The first is you are
physically and mentally extending yourself beyond the norm. As a result
you become physically and mentally stronger. If you can practice when
the situation is at its toughest, how much easier will it be to practice
and play when you are well rested. You push yourself to the max so that
anything less becomes easy. This is based on a principle called A FORTIORI.
A Latin word for logical deduction that means "with stronger reason."
If you can do the greater feat it stands A FORTIORI that you can do the
lessor feat. For instance, if you can extend yourself to run 10 miles,
it stands A FORTIORI that you can run 5 miles easily. If you can extend
yourself to lift 100 pounds it stands A FORTIORI that you can lift 50
pounds easily. And in our case, if you can extend yourself to concentrate
and play when you're tired, A FORTIORI how much easier will it be to concentrate
and play when you are well rested. If you can do the greater, you can
do the lessor. Push yourself beyond the norm and what once felt difficult
becomes easy. I use this principle constantly when teaching...it works!!!
You must not quit practicing at the first sign of tiredness.
Don't give yourself excuses to stop even if your playing is terrible.
Keep concentrating and moving on. Consistently use the A FORTIORI principle
and watch your improvement sky rocket.
Second, if you quit in practice because your tired and
playing poorly what are you going to do in a match? I can hear you now
talking to your opponent. "I'm a little tired and it's causing me to not
play at the top of my game. Do you think we can quit and resume tomorrow
when I've had a good nights sleep?" Do you think your opponent will quip,
"oh sure that's fine. Is that enough time? How about taking two days rest.
This is all my fault. I'm so sorry I got you all sweaty and tired."
Again, you must not quit practicing at the first sign of
tiredness or you will train yourself to make tiredness an excuse in your
matches. You must effectively train your mind to keep fighting, regardless
of the circumstances.
And guess what? We're back to YOU again. There are built
in excuses every where that YOU can use to justify why YOU should take
the path of least resistance. I hope with this email tennis lesson I have
effectively eliminated one of your excuses. Or are you too tired to get
it!!! :)
Your email tennis pro,
Tom Veneziano
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